Well, it is not really Day 1. It is more like day 13 or 1400. 4 years, 5 years now? I've lost track.
The divorce still stays with me, the moments upon moments that I have lost, but that is not what this blog is about. OK, maybe it is partly about thatm, but this certainly won't be the place where I philosophize or worse, whine.
This blog will be a record of my attempts to meet and sleep with women. And while I will just give the play by play, I will also offer thoughts and advice for those who stumble over here. The cliche that fits is "if I can help just one person..." seriously, that would be great, because I know (and a lucrative pua community knows as well) that there are thousands, millions of guys out there that are looking for advice and guidance when it comes to women.
So, who am I to offer advice? What do I know?
I suppose I should describe myself first. (some of these dating blogs leave that stuff out). 44, Divorced Dad of three great sons, good job, good friends... Physically, I would say that I'm decent looking, but I'm not tall, barely 5'7". (we will get back to this soon, and often I'm sure). And, while not unhealthily obsessed with sex or this subject - I would say that I can't stop thinking about women.
So, all in all, not a player, not an introvert. I have serious insecurities, but think I keep those to myself quite well.
And in the last five years, post a divorce that I did not want, I have worked towards improving my view of myself, and have developed a confidence that has helped enormously (I think) in my interactions with women.
In those five years, I have slept with about two dozen women, and "fooled around" with probably another 20 or so. I had one relationship - last year - off and on - over about 9 months, but other than that, it was typical serial dating and one night stands and everything in between. This, with half of my weekends off the market due to my duties as a Dad.
not sure if 24 women is a big deal over five years, my guess is that it is better than average. The quality of the women has been pretty good as well, no supermodels but not a lot to be ashamed of either... But none of that really matters. I don't really live in the past.
As mentioned, the point of this blog is to track activities and adventures going forward. I could fill up some pages with interesting and funny and sad anecdotes, and with what I think I have learned, but that will all come out as I journal...
Day to day activity, approaches, rejections, successes, and everything in between, is what you'll find here.
If you've found me and like what you are reading, or even if you don't, let me know. Either way, thanks for reading!
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